AI-Powered Coaching & Mediation — Couples & Individuals

Strengthen your bond.
Become who you're meant to be.

Tars listens when it matters most — on your own or together with your partner. Speak naturally, receive compassionate AI guidance in real time, and unlock the deeper understanding that transforms relationships — and the people in them.

  • Free for individuals
  • Private by design
  • Real-time guidance

Built for the hard conversations — together or on your own.

A look inside Tars

One guide,
two ways to grow

Use Tars on your own or side-by-side with your partner — and switch any time. Your growth carries across.

Free · Unlimited

A coach in your corner,
for every corner of your life

Process emotions, untangle decisions, and rehearse hard conversations — about your relationship, your family, or your work. Tars listens, asks the questions that matter, and turns every session into insight.

  • Unlimited solo sessions — free, no barriers
  • Emotional processing or practical problem-solving — Tars adapts
  • Every conversation lands in your week-by-week journal
Tars journal listing individual sessions on work and life topics, organised by week
Growth Plan

A neutral voice,
with you both in the room

One shared microphone between you. Tars transcribes live and tells you apart, while Jon or Emma steps in only when you ask — or when you're truly stuck — reflecting both sides without taking one.

  • Real-time mediation from Jon or Emma
  • Live transcription with automatic speaker identification
  • Every session ends in a scored, structured mediation report
Tars couple session report showing Validation and Constructiveness scores with an executive summary

Great relationships don't fail from
lack of love — they fail from lack of understanding.

Every couple — and every person — faces moments when words fall short. The real question is: what happens next?

The External Problem

Arguments escalate before anyone can pause

Conversations spiral. Voices rise. The original issue gets buried under layers of frustration, and neither person feels resolved.

The Internal Problem

Feeling unseen, unheard, and emotionally alone

The deepest wound isn't what was said — it's the feeling that your partner doesn't truly understand what you meant, or who you are.

The Philosophical Problem

Every voice deserves to be truly understood

People shouldn't have to choose between being honest and being kind. There's a way to speak your truth and still hold space for your partner's.

The rooms where it actually happens

Not another productivity tool. A quiet guide for the conversations that shape your life — side by side, or when you're sorting things out alone.

A couple sitting on a cream sofa in warm afternoon light, talking face to face
Together

When the living room gets heavy

Two people, one shared mic. Tars listens without taking sides — so you can finally hear each other.

A person sitting by a window with a warm mug, in quiet reflection
On your own

When you need to think out loud

Process the hard day, rehearse the hard talk, or just be heard — free, private, unlimited.

“What I meant” and “what you heard” don’t have to keep missing each other.

Meet Tars — the guide
who helps you grow

Whether you're working through conflict together or navigating your own inner world alone — Tars brings the empathy, insight, and intelligence to make every word count.

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Sarah
You never listen to what I'm actually saying.
Michael
I'm trying, but it feels like nothing I do is right.
Emma · AI Mediator
You're both reaching for the same thing — to feel valued. Sarah, what does "listening" look like for you?

An AI mediator that knows when to speak

Choose your mediator — Jon or Emma. Using intent classification, they step in only when you ask for help or a genuine deadlock is reached — never talking over you, always adding clarity.

Listening… Live
I just feel like weekends disappear and we never plan anything together.
Honestly I didn't realise that mattered so much to you.
It does. Even one morning would make a difference.

Natural conversation, transcribed live

Just place a single shared microphone between you. Tars transcribes in real time, automatically identifies who's speaking, and never breaks the flow of your conversation.

Couples

Relational mediation

Reflecting both sides, translating intent, and naming the patterns between you.

Individual

Coaching & clarity

Triage between emotional processing and action-oriented problem-solving.

Dynamic session modes

Tars adapts its whole approach to who's in the room — mediating between two people, or coaching one.

Emma's Insight
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Insight the moment you're stuck

Stuck in an argument? Hit "Get Insight Now" at any point for an immediate, unbiased AI perspective. Clarity right when you need it — not after the storm has passed.

Session Report

8.2 / 10 communication
Commitment: a phone-free dinner every Thursday
Pattern: interruptions down 40% over 5 sessions

Reports that turn talk into growth

Every session generates a structured mediation report. Over time, Tars builds cross-session profiles to track patterns, celebrate growth, and illuminate the path to becoming your best self.

The more you talk,
the deeper it understands

Between sessions, Tars quietly distils what matters — your strengths, your commitments, the people you care about — into a private map of your growth.

Tars Character Insights showing consistent strengths with scores and action items
Character Insights

Who you are at your core

Strengths and growth edges scored across sessions — never a one-off impression.

Tars insights showing commitments, learnings, and recurring patterns
Commitments & Learnings

Breakthroughs, remembered

Commitments, learnings, and patterns carried forward so progress compounds.

Tars People and Connections listing people known from sessions
People & Connections

The people who matter

Relationship context builds automatically — you can correct, confirm, or remove anytime.

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Unique to Tars
Private by Design

No email. No name. Just growth.

Start completely anonymously with a passkey — or sign in with Apple or Google to sync across devices. Your conversations stay private and yours.

  • Anonymous passkey — no email required
  • Or Apple / Google to sync your journey

Four steps to a
deeper connection

No setup complexity. No learning curve. Just speak naturally, and let Tars do the rest.

Start a Session

Choose Solo or Couples, name the conversation, and hit start. That's it.

Speak Naturally

Talk freely. The live transcript appears instantly, color-coded by speaker.

Receive Guidance

Let Jon or Emma guide the conversation, or prompt them for custom insights.

Review & Grow

End the session and review your structured mediation report. Track your growth over time.

Imagine a relationship where
every voice is truly heard

This is the life Tars helps you build — not just a better relationship, but a better, more intentional version of yourself.

Deeper Emotional Intimacy

Move from surface-level exchanges to conversations that build genuine closeness and mutual respect.

Personal Growth & Self-Awareness

Discover your communication patterns, understand your triggers, and evolve into a more compassionate, emotionally intelligent person.

Conflict Becomes Connection

Transform disagreements from destructive spirals into opportunities for deeper understanding and stronger partnership.

Measurable Progress Over Time

Track your relational growth with session reports and cross-session insights that celebrate how far you've come.

You Your partner Talking past each other In tune

Your safety is never an afterthought

Vulnerable conversations demand absolute trust. Here's how Tars earns it — every session, every time.

Built-in Guardrails

Immediate detection and compassionate escalation protocols for self-harm, hopelessness, or domestic safety concerns. You're never alone.

Localized Support

Automatically surfaces local helplines and support services based on your city and country. Help is always nearby, always relevant.

Anonymous by Default

Stay completely anonymous with a passkey — no email, no name — or sign in with Apple or Google. Your conversations stay private, encrypted, and entirely yours.

Becoming your best self
should never cost a thing

We believe that the journey to stronger relationships and personal growth is a fundamental human right.

Our philosophy: Working on yourself should be free, always. We only charge for couples mediation and the deep analytics that power your long-term transformation.
Core
Free

Everything you need to understand yourself and grow — unlimited individual coaching with real-time guidance. No credit card, no catch.

Unlimited individual sessions
Live transcription & speaker identification
On-demand insights during sessions
Report summaries & communication scores
Built-in safety guardrails
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The conversations you avoid today
become the distance you feel tomorrow

Patterns don't dissolve on their own. Without a new way to navigate conflict, the same arguments replay, the same wounds reopen, and the gap between "what I meant" and "what you heard" quietly grows.

But it doesn't have to be this way. Every great relationship was built by two people brave enough to try something different.

Take the First Step

Your relationship deserves
its breakthrough moment.

Start a free session today. No signup walls, no judgment — just a safe space for the conversations that matter most.

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